Week 16, Dec. 4 - Dec. 10
Thursday, Dec. 4th
Baby Update: Rapid
and sustained growth continues all this
week. Over the next two days, the baby's
head and neck will straighten as more bone
is formed and the back muscles become stronger.
- "The Pregnancy Journal" by A.
Christine Harris, Ph. D.
Friday, Dec.
5th
Had my first dream
about the baby last night. Isaac's first
question was, "well, was it a boy or
a girl?". It was a girl. But I won't
ponder much on the validity of the dream
because in the dream the baby had blonde
hair. I realize it's possible... my nephew
has blonde hair. But I don't think it's
likely. I think a couple of things can be
guessed pretty accurately about the baby.
A. It will have dark hair. Maybe not black
like it's daddy's, and maybe not pure brown
like mommy's, but definately somewhere inbetween.
B. The baby will have brown eyes. Sure Grandpa
Sperry has hazel eyes, but he's the only
exception to that rule on either side (at
least that I know of). C. The baby will
likely have same shape eyes as Isaac. "Slant-eye"
(Isaac's term) seems to rule over "round-eye".
D. The baby will likely have darker skin
than me. Isaac's pretty light (at least
a lot lighter than his brother Henry and
his dad), so it's hard to say just how dark
the baby will be. And that's about what
I can guess the baby will look like. Just
6 more months until we find out!
An evening entry: Isaac and I had a day
out today in downtown Seattle. We saw "Gothika".
We liked it but nitpicked it a bit. Isaac
didn't like the "movie ending"
because in the real world it wouldn't have
happened the way it did. There were some
other thingst that were confusing but we
still liked it. Then we went to Old Navy
where I bought my first pair of pregnant
pants. They are of the "under the belly"
variety. They should do me well until I
can't fit in to my jeans anymore.
Baby Update: The baby's head and neck have
assumed more of a straight-line relationship.
- "The Pregnancy Journal" by A.
Christine Harris, Ph. D.
Saturday, Dec.
6th
Baby Update: During
this month, the baby's body will begin to
grow faster than its head. - "The Pregnancy
Journal" by A. Christine Harris, Ph.
D.
Sunday, Dec.
7th
Wore the pregnant
pants for the first time today. All of my
other jeans were being washed and they were
really comfy. Didn't help the heartburn
I got after dinner though.
Baby Update: Over the next three days, the
baby's tonails will begin to grow from their
nail beds. - "The Pregnancy Journal"
by A. Christine Harris, Ph. D.
Monday, Dec.
8th
I've got a doctor's
appointment tomorrow. It's the 16 week one.
There's a chance (though a small one) that
he'll do an ultrasound. I think the fact
that my uterus hasn't "popped"
out of it's current position yet might guarantee
he doesn't do one for the sake of finding
out the sex of the baby. That's usually
done at 20 weeks anyway. I also have to
come to a final decision about prenatal
screening. I'm leaning towards not doing
it (and Isaac's with me on that leaning).
It's a tough decision I think. From what
I've read there are a lot of false results
with these tests, causing women to go through
unnecessary tests, such as the amniocentises
(think very large and long needle in the
belly! Yikes!).
For those that don't know about this kind
of stuff, the initial test is just a blood
test that determines the risk of the baby
being born with a genetic disorder, such
as down syndrom or a neural tube defect
(think spinal things)... the results come
back as "1 in 1,000", "1
in 10,000", etc. If the numbers come
back in normal ranges the test is said to
be "negative" for risk. Otherwise,
the result is "positive" for risk.
If you get a positive result you have a
little meeting with a genetics counselor,
and then you either do a level 2 ultrasound
and/or an amniocentises. A lot of people
agree to the level 2 ultrasound but decide
to skip the amnio because of the (slight)
risk of miscarriage. One decision we have
made is that if I do decide to go ahead
with the blood test that the only test we'll
do after that is the level 2 ultrasound.
My concern is that I'll be unneccessarily
put under stress. I all ready know what
stress does to my blood pressure and it's
not good for myself nor the baby. Besides
that, we don't feel there's much reason
to suspect the baby would be at risk for
any disorders since there aren't any on
either side of the family that we know of.
And if I get a "false positive"
I'll be extremely stressed for no reason.
Also, many of the tests that come back "positive"
result in perfectly healthy babies.
I'm going to do more reading today. Or again
I should say. I've all ready read everything
in the house on the subject. And I'll hope
the doctor says something tomorrow that
really helps me make a firm decision.
The baby seems to be doing fine. It hid
from the doppler last night and scared me.
We finally found the heartbeat though. It
was really low, and it was low again this
morning. I'm hoping it moves into a more
optimal position for the doctor tomorrow.
Here's the heartbeat for 16 weeks.
I know this is a terribly long entry, but
I've just one more thing to add. I get an
email every week that details the development
of the baby at the end of each week (it
includes an illustration of what the baby
looks like). So here is a link that details
the baby at 16
weeks.
Baby Update: The principles of exchange
that govern the baby's blood supply make
it impossible for the baby to completely
deplete the mother's blood supply of nutrients,
so there's always something left over for
your system. - "The Pregnancy Journal"
by A. Christine Harris, Ph. D.
Tuesday, Dec.
9th
Aside from the
doctor's
appointment there isn't much to report
today. Feeling fine, the baby is fine, all
is fine!!
Baby Update: The baby's head now appears
upright, rather than curving down on the
chest. The toenails are growing from their
nail beds. - "The
Pregnancy Journal" by A. Christine
Harris, Ph. D.
Wednesday, Dec.
10th
I think I'm going
to begin seeing some real changes in my
belly soon. This morning when I woke up
I felt my stomach and it felt noticeably
harder than before. And when laying on my
stomach it now feels like I'm laying on
something, but it's not uncomfortable yet.
According to one book I have, this next
week will be one of rapid growth for the
baby, which should also mean rapid growth
for me. I've still got 2 to 6 weeks before
I'll feel the baby move. I can't wait!
Baby Update: The baby measures 4 3/4 inches
long crown to rump and weighs 3 3/4 ounces,
having more than doubled its dimensions
in a mere two weeks. (Pretty amazing, huh?)
- "The Pregnancy Journal" by A.
Christine Harris, Ph. D.
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